Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Homeownership...


Home-ownership is not for the faint of heart. I haven't even closed on my new home yet and it is already giving me irregular heart palpitations. For those of you that have yet to explore the process of buying a home lets just say buyer beware that once you start writing checks it never ends. The good news is that the most random things bring me great joy these days. Who would ever have thought that a stainless steel fridge with exterior ice dispenser and pur water filter could make this 20-something smile ear to ear? (note: the gf will be the first to tell you that the new refrigerator almost brought me to tears, it just made me so happy!)

It is a blessing to be able to buy a home and to share it with somebody that I love, but man I'm exhausted just thinking about my schedule for the next few weeks. I've got my paint swatches ready, gas in the lawn mower and hopefully the cable guy is on his way over because its college football season…I can't wait to move in!

I'm starting to blog more over the next few weeks…I've learned the art of short succinct blogging rather than long paragraphs about my life, because seriously who really cares about the details?

MY NEW HOME:

Thursday, April 16, 2009

See you soon...

Wow, I'm really bad at blogging. For somebody that has so much to say in real life and has an opinion 99% of the time, I'm bad at putting it in cyberspace. In real life I can be harsh, rash and unpredictable but for some reason when blogging I'm too afraid to hurt people's feelings or offend others. For those of you who know me well, you're really confused right now.

Anyways, I took a pretty big break from the blog recently, mostly because I've started dating somebody, she is amazing and for some reason writing blogs about us and our dating realities didn’t seem right or fair, but so many people out there do it. In fact, I read plenty of other blogs that are solely devoted to dating, my favorite is http://datingwithoutpants.blogspot.com (disclaimer: just because I read it doesn't mean I agree with it, but he is HILARIOUS and such a witty writer). Moral of the story is that so many times recently I've wanted to write about something I was curious about or dating questions in general, plus in the month of January I went on a total of 5 blind dates and 1 pseudo-blind date and planned to write about each and every single one of them. Then I met somebody, let's call her UTGirl, so I opted to not write about the other not important, ridiculous dates and rehash awkward but awesome experiences simply because I'm elated with where I ended up.

Basically everything is going great with us, but something happened that really threw me for a loop the other day. Let me preface this by saying that she is a nurse and works nights from 7pm to 7am and we usually don't see each other for the 3 or 4 day window when she's on the clock. So, we were out with a group comprised of both of our friends and we were walking out to the car to say goodbye, everything was normal we kissed and said our goodbyes and as she was walking away I said,

"I'll see you soon…"

I guess this wasn't the right thing to say according to Cosmo, Elle, or Seventeen magazines (didn’t know that they were the written truth on dating, but it turns out they are). Her friends were a gasp and everybody but me saw a major issue with this phrase. I guess in girl-speak "see you soon" really means "I don't want to see you ever again." In the words and infliection of Amy Pohler and Seth Myers "SERIOUSLY?...I mean SERIOUSLY"

Well, I just want to say that soon is defined in the dictionary as:

1) within a short period after this or that time, event, etc.
2) before long; in the near future; at an early date
3) readily or willingly
4) early in a period of time; before the time specified is much advanced

NOT one of those references even alludes to the concept of never. Our goodbye was on a Monday night and I was going to see her on Friday, that to me is soon and I even felt as though I said it as a sad puppy, noting that it wasn't soon enough, obviously I didn’t or I wouldn't have been in the doghouse. I guess you live and learn because if I had just said "I'll see you Friday" this would've never happened and I wouldn't have screwed up.

Lesson learned.

Mistake overturned so I call it a lesson learned
Another lesson learned
- John Mayer & Alicia Keys

Thursday, March 19, 2009

The good news is that I finally like this season of Idol, it took me awhile to warm up to the new contestants and now I'm ready for the big guns. The final 10 (note: these are the contestants that will be on the summer tour), all of which I like in one way or another, except for Anoop. By the way America, I think that we made a bad decision by getting rid of Alexis Grace…while I think that her rendition of Jolene left much to be desired, I think that she was one of the best left.

Here is my rundown:


My Top 3: (so far)

1) Matt Giraud – HE IS AWESOME!!!! Randomly, he is the perfect blend of Robin Thicke, Justin Timberlake, Michael Buble and Jason Mraz. AMAZING! I have only ever voted twice in Idol history (Carrie Underwood and Carly Smithson) and I will let it be known that I'll be voting for Matt this season. I hope he wins and if he doesn’t win I hope he pulls a Jennifer Hudson/Daughtry on us and lives up to what he is capable of doing.

2) Megan Corkery – Yes, she has awkward dance moves and can be kind of different, but there is something about her that I can't resist, maybe it’s the sleeve tat (note: Carly Smithson had one too). I think she is great and given the right music choices, she'll do wonderful things.

3) Kris Allen – I think that he is just a tiny puppy that will eventually mature over the next few weeks. This guy has so much potential he has a voice that seems to adapt to everything he sings. If he figures out what he wants to be as an artist I think he'll go pretty far in the competition.


MOST ANNOYING:

1) Anoop Desai – He's just bad and I think that if it weren't for his Chapel Hill faithful from UNC voting every week, he would've been gone a long time ago. I mean he could probably easily win a karaoke competition, but other than that I've got no love for Anoop.

2) Danny Gokey – I know he has a sob story and I know that the judges love him, but I just can't get into him. For me he is a cross between Taylor Hicks and Clay Aiken and I just can't warm up yet, maybe in the coming weeks I'll figure out a way to like him.

3) Adam Lambert – A Broadway actor that has the talent and the ability to completely re-work songs to work for his style, too bad I don't really like his style. If he can figure out a way to tone down the dramatics I feel like I would like him more. He's a lot like David Cook in the sense that he takes a song and makes it entirely his own, barely even channeling the original version. Its obvious the producers like him best, he has the best lighting, usually song choice, staging, and order in the show.


For me the verdict is out on Lil Rounds and Michael Sarver, I don’t have a passionate opinion about either of them, sometimes I REALLY like them and other times I don't. I think the judges were really harsh on Michael this week, I thought his performance was by far the most fun of the evening.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Equinox...


So far, so good, I've lost about 19 lbs, give or take a pound depending on the time of day that I weigh myself. Plus, you'll be glad to know that I've only skipped 5 total days of working out since January 5th and lost about 2% body fat. Basically I need to lose 15 more pounds and 5% body fat, not sure how long that will take but I feel so much better, my clothes are starting to feel baggy and I get random compliments from people who haven't seen me in awhile. For me getting motivated to workout was finding a place that makes working out enjoyable with added amenities like a sauna and spa, I know it sounds weird but when something is relaxing and de-toxing it is so much more enjoyable for me.

I'm at the point in my routine where I don't know what to do from here as far as further weight loss, shifting the weight, toning and sculpting, etc. I've never been a big fan of working out so I'm slowly but surely learning my way around the gym. Because of my need for education and my impatience, I bit the bullet and joined the corporate mega-giant that is Equinox. It is a new facility in Dallas and it's really nice. I had my first session with my new best friend Colby, he will be training me over the next few months and was really positive. He told me that I've set very realistic goals and was encouraging, even noted that it is impressive that I know what I want to accomplish and that makes his job easy. Somebody should warn poor Colby that training me to do anything isn't exactly easy, but I'm trying to be flexible (literally, he's teaching me yoga poses to help with stretching) and I'm paying him which should be enough motivation for me to do anything that he says.

Tonight is our first workout together; last night was mostly testing, measuring and prodding. I'll keep you posted on how things are going.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Christine Caine...

I spent a few days at a Creative Church Conference about two weeks ago now and it was incredible. For me the highlight was a woman from the land down-under, Christine Caine. She is a phenomenal teacher/preacher and has the innate ability to speak directly to my heart through her excitement and realness.

I've just started it, but I'm reading her book "Stop Acting Like a Christian, Just Be One" and I love her message. If you want more information about her, youtube her or google her, you won't regret it, she is amazing.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

24 things...

In observance of my 24th birthday this weekend, I give you…

24 things you may or may not know about Robbie…

1) I like to think there is a soundtrack to go with life, every song I hear reminds me of something or somebody…dum dum dee dum dum…

2) I love Tyler Perry movies…MADEA!

3) Contrary to popular belief, I’m actually sort of shy the first time you meet me

4) A friend once told people I work with/my boss, “Homecoming King is something Rob does well, if UBS needs a king, he’s your guy…”

5) I actually get a thrill out of completing a formula in excel and the numbers match what I’m trying to accomplish, that’s the nerdy banker in me…

6) The first time I got drunk was from a liquor aptly titled 99 Bananas…I get a headache just thinking about the hideousness

7) When I get upset about something I turn into “one-word Robbie”…I’m working on it…Nope, I’m fine…

8) I’ve lived in 7 states (Illinois, Kansas, Michigan, Texas, Oklahoma, New York, New Jersey)

9) My favorite color is blue

10) The song that defines my life is “My Stupid Mouth” by John Mayer

11) If there is ever a movie about me I would like one of 3 people to play me…Jake Gylenhal, Paul Rudd or Bradley Cooper

12) Fall is my favorite season

13) I love/miss the rooftop of my apt in NYC, it’s my happy place…

14) Billy Joel is my favorite musician

15) Best concert I’ve ever attended was Justin Timberlake (Future/Sex-Love/Show)…and I’ve been to a lot of shows

16) I like giving nicknames…

17) People often tell me that they have a “Robbie” in their life...not sure how to interpret that, but I look at it as a good thing

18) I love laughing till my stomach hurts and my face aches from smiling

19) If I could only accomplish one more thing before I die, it would be to inspire people

20) I love to travel and would go anywhere

21) I’ve auditioned for the TV shows: The Real World and The Bachelor

22) Mi Cocina has a salad dressing (chili-vinaigrette) that I could eat on something every day of my life

23) I’ve read all of the Harry Potter books and I attend midnight showings of the movies

24) I don't like to do something unless I know I can do it well

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Valentine's Day...part 2

Now gifts for women. I’m not exactly the expert (check my dating record for proof) but I think I have some good suggestions for the lady in your life. Valentine’s Day can be tricky, but be bold, smart, and observant. I think that this is the perfect opportunity for you to show somebody that you really know them and if they don’t like what you pick, maybe it’s a sign that you don’t know them well enough.

By the way, I’m a big planning person, so most of my ideas are events rather than physical gifts, but to each his own.

1) Concert Tickets - I think the key to Valentine’s Day is that you need to show your lady that she is special year round and what better way to do that than by planning a special night further down the road. There are some amazing shows coming to a city near you in the next few months, maybe even look at her ipod to make sure that she actually likes the artist that you choose (some say they like people because it makes them look cool in your eyes). I think it speaks volumes if you pick something that she really wants to see (even if it wouldn’t be your first choice). A few suggestions: No Doubt Reunion Tour, Billy Joel/Elton John Face 2 Face Tour, Taylor Swift (tickets are only $20), Coldplay Summer Amphitheater Tour, Keith Urban, Katy Perry…these are just some of the ones off the top of my head, but go to ticketmaster.com and check who is coming to your area.

2) Tiff’s Treats – everybody in their office is going to get flowers, why not send something original like COOKIES, not just any cookies, but cookies that are guaranteed to be delivered WARM, fresh out of the oven and with milk, they are sold in dozens so she can share with people in the office and they will know that her guy is AMAZING, not just boring old overpriced, wilting by the time they’re FedExed roses. http://www.cookiedelivery.com/ (don’t forget to have them delivered on the 13th this year, since Saturday the 14th nobody will be at work)

3) Drive-In Movie Night – I recommended this to a friend a few weeks ago and he said it went really well. Go to the grocery store and pick up some snack foods, if you’re talented, make a cheese tray/dessert assortment (don’t get too carried away if this is your first rodeo), grab a bottle of wine and head to the nearest drive-in movie theater. There are great movies out right now and it is creative, you can talk, hang out watch a movie outside, bring a blanket and sit on the hood of your car (that is if you’re not crazy over-protective of yours)…could be corny in the end, but what isn’t corny about V-day?

4) Adele - For the simple and to the point, buy her 19, the debut album from Adele, its romantic raspy and poetic. She'll love it if she likes Norah Jones, John Mayer, Sara Bareilles and/or Michael Buble. Its a great romantic and nice cd.

Hope some of these spark some interest or at least steer you in the right direction. I’m not a big fan of corny jewelry for women (such as the newest heart pendant from Zales), so I refuse to go down that route and I don’t think you have to spend a lot of money to have a great time, plus I think when you plan something it shows you care way more than just peeking into her medicine cabinet to replicate some expensive perfume that she already has and gets from grandma every year for her birthday, but if you’re bold and think you can pick out a pair of Tory Burch flats that she’s been dying for, then be my guest, she’ll love you just as much for knowing exactly what she wants.

"Love is the greatest refreshment in life."
-Pablo Picasso

Valentine's Day...

It has been awhile and I apologize for my absence, but I’m back and as excited as ever to talk about something that may or may not go over well...what to get your significant other for Valentine’s Day is on the mind of many lovers right now, so here I blog.

Since I’m a guy and know what I like and at times have been told that I have good taste, I’m telling you about things I would love for Valentine’s, hopefully your significant other will appreciate them too.

I think Valentine’s is the perfect holiday to get them something for spring/summer, it is right around the corner and everybody is over scarves and hoodies right now, so go in a warm direction.

Here are a few things that I think the special man in your life might like; well at least I like them:


1) Vineyard Vines Swimsuit – I LOVE VINEYARD VINES!!!! If you have a Valentine that can pull it off, their cool designs are really fun, very southern frat/waspy but they’ll be a big hit on the beach or poolside. (They also have plain for the boring ones)



2) VonZipper Sunglasses (not to be confused with vonducth) – If you know me well, then you know I love sunglasses of all shapes and sizes and VonZipper is the perfect blend of cost and style, plus nobody else has them, everyone in Dallas has stereotypical Ray Bans, don’t be like the rest of the crowd, branch out.



3) Vineyard Vines Necktie – If you have a professional man in your life these are great, they’re stylish, yet still fairly conservative because they blend. They always make for a great conversation piece at the office and are way less expensive and more fun than similar styles from Hermes, they’re young, fun, and professional.


4) New Cologne – You’re the one that has to smell him, it might as well be something you like, but go for a lighter scent something that isn’t musty and stuffy, again think outside of the box on this one, you can get top of the line scents for under $50 and then creatively package it with a new travel bag like pictured below. (nice clean scents include Ferragamo and Burberry Summer, but cosmetic counter will know hundreds of varieties, get creative)



Those are some of my ideas, I hope you like them and keep me posted if you decide to use any of them, I want to know how they go over.

For those that don’t know I’ve been at home with the flu for the past few days and it has been pretty miserable, but the good news is my DVR recordings are officially caught up and I’m back in action as far as the blog goes.

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition."

- Alexander Smith

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Goodbye 417...

This weekend marks the end of an era, two of my very best friends (Megan & Stephanie) have been living together for the past 2 years and it has been the central hub for so many of my dearest friends and myself. It is lame to compare it, but it is very similar to the season finale of FRIENDS (the best TV show) and many of my very favorite post-college memories have taken place in apt 417 at the West Village, so today I pay tribute to an apt that has become a friend.

These are a few of my favorite memories that took place in 417:

- OU/TX 2008: The legend of JJ. JJ is a friend that I worked with in NYC that had never been to a "real" college football game (this summer I learned that people from up there have greater appreciation for Lax 'lacrosse', baseball, sailing and other random sports) so I can think of no better game in the world to go to as your "first." It doesn't matter who you cheer for or where you went to school, but if you have any appreciation for college sports, OU/TX at the Cotton Bowl is the ultimate experience. Its hard to put JJ's visit into words and it is far more amazing if you actually experienced the weekend but lets just say it included an Oprah style interview on the coach of 417 with my inquisitive and often line-crossing friends and let me tell you a couple of them are not shy and always ask the questions that everybody wants to know, but are often too afraid to ask. Other highlights of the weekend included JJ getting pushed out of a moving vehicle, getting lost on our way to breakfast while almost dying, and sneaking friends in to the Cotton bowl.

- Cooking Lessons: Megan and I decided to cook dinner a few weeks ago now, and by we, I mean Megan was cooking and I said I'd bring a bottle of wine and talk to her while she cooked. Well, upon my arrival, I was thrown into baking the dessert. It involved taking a glass bowl and placing it over a boiling pot of water to melt chocolate (I don't know what this action is called, but I should've just quit when I didn’t understand the first step) anyways, as this all progressed I dropped the glass bowl into the filled pie pan thanks to the grease that had gathered on the outside of the bowl and on my hands. Then the pie had to cool in the fridge, but we didn’t have time to wait so I placed it in the freezer and balanced the pie on a frozen chicken nugget. I thought the ordeal had finished, ooooo how I was mistaken, I opened the freezer only to find the pie had fallen off the nugget and spilled all over EVERYTHING….ooops, its a tiny spill just ignore it!

- The Pantry: While we're talking about food, I always love raiding the pantry at Steph and Meg's because they couldn't be more opposite in terms of food consumption. I always tease them about it, but I secretly love it. I can always depend on Steph's selection of Diet Sunkist, Splenda products, Cheez-its, frozen iced oatmeal cookies, some sort of baked chip, oreos, and Pringles, all of this and she manages to remains tiny, it’s everything and any type of processed food that you knew and loved growing up, it's awesome! Then there is Megan's selection of various cheeses, alfalfa sprouts, canned soups, etc. No matter what you're in the mood for you can probably find some variation at 417.

- Aggie Love: Tyler and Steph's engagement, enough said

- Sleepy Meg: Watching Megan fall asleep at the table while eating Village Burger Bar salads during her days and an I-banker

- JT: The premiere of the Justin Timberlake Future/Sex/Loveshow in HD on HBO

- More Food: Thanksgiving Feasts, need I say more?

- Last Minute Plans: Showing up for "dinner" in scrubbed out sweatpants, baseball hat and a t-shirt only to find a dinner party comprised of 7 attractive girls and me

- Multiple award shows, bowl game announcements, etc

- Tivo: Going through 417's DVR recordings only to find 32 episodes of Jon and Kate Plus 8, about 100 weddings shows, Brothers & Sisters, The Biggest Loser, etc….their DVR is the most comprehensive chick collection I've ever witnessed and it will be missed

- Best Friends: The thing I will miss most about 417 is sitting on Steph's bed with Megan and Stephanie by my side, talking about life, work, and the mysteries of the world. I'm glad that I got to do this one last time this past weekend before they turn in their keys. They're 2 of the very best friends in the world and I'm going to miss having them under one roof.

Here's to you 417 and to the people who inhabit you next…may they share as many memories with you as we have…


"The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. "
-Nicholas Sparks

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

"Ice Storm" Dallas style...


I love snow/icy days in Dallas; they’re reminiscent of an end of the world action movie. I use no exaggeration in the following blog and I thank the people of Dallas for being a tad overdramatic and awesome.

Things you need to know:

- First, Ice/snow is always less than one inch (80% of the time less than half an inch)

- Second, temperature is usually only below 32 degrees overnight

So since Sunday afternoon the local weathermen have been hard at work sounding the alarm for the winter storm of the century (not to be confused with the apocalypse). For those of us that have migrated to Texas from other parts of the country, we find nothing more hilarious than watching neighbors raid the nearest grocery store for canned goods, bottled water, and heating lamps, just in case.

The following are five things that frustrate me about Dallas winter advisories:

1) You don’t have to go the speed limit when there are icy roads, you should actually be driving slower than posted limits, take it easy. Please take caution especially on roads that don’t get much sunlight. This note is to the woman traveling down Lemmon this morning who thought she could still go 40 on a slick road and stop in time at the stop light. I literally watched her hit me in my (correction, Megan’s) rearview mirror, I was stopped at a red stop light and saw her coming and just knew that she didn’t have time to stop. Next, she proceeds to get out of the car and says “hehe, its icy, oops” OOOPSS? Yea its icy, you didn’t get the memo with the rest of the metroplex? Its only been the topic of conversation for the past 48 hours, lets not go 40 on the ice….that is what I wanted to say but instead just responded with lets exchange information and get this show on the road.

2) Texas Department of Transportation, this memo is for you. There is this thing called salt and it melts ice and would help to clear most major roadways. Sand is just annoying, irritating and sits on top of the ice.

3) Maybe if I had children or if somebody depended on me, I would take the preparation process more seriously, but one day of ice does not constitute stocking the pantry with non-perishable goods.

4) And finally, most importantly its all going to be gone by noon when the temperature reaches the upper 30s and mid 40s so lets just take it easy and be flexible till then, no freaking out needed.

5) Maybe I’m just writing this because I’m no longer in school and was made well too aware that the stock market doesn’t close for snow days, nor does my place of employment.



Blow, blow, thou winter wind

Thou art not so unkind,

As man's ingratitude.

-William Shakespeare

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Most prestigious...

While I feel it is way too early to begin discussing the 2009-2010 college football season, there are a few things that happened this week that I think are noteworthy. One there is a new article out that I can’t resist talking about it. On Friday, January 23rd ESPN released their rankings of the most prestigious college football programs since 1935 and the University of Oklahoma came in at number 1!!!! All of the haters are rolling their eyes right now, but it was actually an incredibly interesting process and covered a wide range of topics from bowl wins, to points scored, it even took into consideration NCAA sanctions placed on the school for violations involving their program.

Here are three links, detailing the process, commentary, and the rankings themselves:

1) Prestige Rankings -
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncf/news/story?id=3849468


2) Explaining the Process -
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncf/news/story?id=3836130


3) Ivan Maisel: Times change, but OU stays on top (ranking commentary) -
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncf/columns/story?columnist=maisel_ivan&id=3852829


If interested you can read through the articles and find your favorite school on the links within the above articles.

Oklahoma Sooners

(from the ESPN article) Total points: 1,968

Positives: When you look at the big picture of college football since 1936, no program has achieved greatness as consistently as Oklahoma. We didn't even count the fact that Oklahoma owns the longest win streak in FBS history (47) or leads the nation with a .765 winning percentage since World War II. The 1956 Oklahoma team catapulted the Sooners past Notre Dame to the top of the Prestige Rankings, and it's been in the top spot ever since. OU's seven national titles have spanned four decades. The Sooners have finished in the final poll's top 5 an astounding 29 times. But the real fuel for OU's rise to the top of our rankings has been its conference dominance. The Sooners finished the regular season with at least a share of their conference's best record a stunning 39 times, seven more than any other program in the country.Negatives: Oklahoma was downright mediocre in the '90s. The Sooners ranked 51st in that decade's rankings, directly behind Hawaii. OU also didn't have a single major bowl win and suffered through three losing seasons. The Oklahoma program also has been punished by the NCAA to varying degrees six separate times in its history. Through the decades: Through 1958: 1st 1968: 1st 1978: 1st 1988: 1st 1998: 1stDid you know? Oklahoma has been voted the No. 1 team in the country by the AP a record 97 times, including twice this past season to break a tie with Notre Dame.


The second event that took place this week was that the OU athletic department released OU’s official 2009 schedule and once again OU has chosen to take on out of conference teams with strong rivalries. The non-conference foes include an away game versus Miami, plus the Sooners will be christening the new Cowboys stadium in Arlington versus BYU, which in seasons past have argued that they deserved a shot in a BCS bowl. It should be a fun season and it is easily argued that the Sooners only pass Texas on the road to the BCS National Championship game because OU played teams that faired well in their respective conferences and one that reached a BCS bowl themselves, so it looks like the athletic department is getting it right by challenging themselves early in the season.

I can’t wait for college football and it has only been a few weeks…and in better news, basketball season is going really well so far…


"We compete, not so much against an opponent, but against ourselves. The real test is this: Did I make my best effort on every play?" - Bud Wilkinson, OU Legend and former coach

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Weight loss...

"There is no happiness except in the realization that we have accomplished something."
-Henry Ford

I dread this topic; it is something that I've struggled with for a while and for sure my greatest insecurity. Like most things I use sarcasm and humor to joke about my weight as a defense mechanism to appear confident, but not anymore. This summer while living in NYC, with help from a colleague of mine, I was able to create a simple workout routine and stuck to it, resulting in a loss of about 17 lbs over the course of 6 months and I was feeling great about myself, the way I looked and simply the way I felt, but then I moved to Dallas and used every excuse from I'm busy getting situated to I'll start again as soon as the holidays are over, resulting in a 15lb gain.

I'm starting fresh with new goals for the end of winter and start of spring. Some of this stems from attending weddings, alumni events, etc in the coming months and I don't want to be the big guy in pictures and the other part is turning 24 in a few weeks and if I'm not willing to step up now, when will I ever take the right steps towards being healthy.

Well, in the world of cyberspace I'm documenting my current weight and I am setting some parameters for my goals:

My current weight is: 219
My goal weight is: 185
Total weight loss: 34
Start date: Monday, January 19, 2009
Finish date: Saturday, August 15, 2009 (Stephanie & Tyler's Wedding)
206 days to the big day (thanks wedding window website)
29 weeks away
1.17 lbs/week

Here is the catch…it is easy just to write this goal down and forget about it, but as a piece of motivation my dear friend Megan is taking unflattering, shirtless, winter pale and nasty "before" pictures and if I don't reach my goal she is going to post them on my blog and pass them out amongst my friends. I guess for me there is nothing more motivating than public humiliation or embarrassment.

So here I go…

"You have to stay in shape. My grandmother, she started walking five miles a day when she was 60. She's 97 today and we don't know where the hell she is. You may delay, but time will not."
-Ellen Degeneres

Thursday, January 15, 2009

America...


In tonight’s primetime address, President Bush said "Like all who have held this office before me, I have experienced setbacks. There are things I would do differently if given the chance. Yet I have always acted with the best interests of our country in mind.”

As the nation prepares for what is being billed as the most historic presidential inauguration in recent history, I’m going where few choose to go, saying goodbye and thank you to a leader I look to as a man of unbelievable faith and courage, the 43rd president of the United States of America, George W. Bush.

Over the past 8 years there have been many issues, decisions, and actions made by our government that I don’t agree with, but there have been just as many triumphs by the Bush administration and that comes with the territory. I would challenge you to find any perfect leader in the history of the world, no such person exists. A concept that I have come to grips with during my time in college leadership positions is that you are only able to please some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but you will never be able to please all of the people all of the time.

I feel that in the final days of his presidency, President Bush is blamed for everything and anything that involves the American people, the economy; even events of nature are blamed on the Bush administration. All of this while Barack Obama is hailed as the greatest President ever, before he has even taken office, signed a single piece of legislation into action, or vetoed a bill. I don’t know why Americans, the media, and naysayers are unable to come to grips that current problems may have been embedded in America long before President Bush ever entered the Oval Office or might have been beyond the control of his administration. Perhaps if Americans stopped being so divisive and elected officials worked together with the President on some of our nation’s most immediate problems, we would actually have a chance at solving a few of them in an orderly manner.

At the end of President Bush’s second victorious campaign in 2004, he said, "Today, I want to speak to every person who voted for my opponent. To make this nation stronger and better, I will need your support, and I will work to earn it. I will do all I can do to deserve your trust." Obama made a similar cry during his Election Day victory speech in November and hopefully the American people hear his call, because it seems as though the Bush doctrine was abandoned by many Americans before it was ever written.

President Bush lead us with his head held high and set a standard for patriotism in the wake of the September 11th attacks and has since protected our country from other terrorist action. He successfully revamped our entire defense system, created Homeland Security, and secured our nation’s airports, borders, and waterways. Not to mention the president lowered taxes, worked to reform the US education system, and nominated Supreme Court justices. He was faced with difficult decisions and made them with what I believe to be a clear mind, the facts that were presented to him, and used morals and integrity built with a foundation of Christianity and for that I give him the utmost respect.

I may have voted Republican in the last election, but it is in my nature to support leaders and work with them rather than against them. Few get anything accomplished by working alone and I will support President-elect Obama in any way that I can. Unless something is evil, corrupt, or simply wrong why is fighting against our elected officials in America’s best interest, especially in this time of economic distress? Yes, our country needs healthy debate and without two sides of a story the best decision can’t be made. This isn’t to say that I don’t believe in democracy and some things aren’t worth the inevitable fight, but the treatment of President Bush has been bottom line, embarrassing.

Jeffrey Scott Shapiro from the Wall Street Journal agrees with my perspective, he notes “Our failure to stand by the one person who continued to stand by us has not gone unnoticed by our enemies. It has shown to the world how disloyal we can be when our president needed loyalty -- a shameful display of arrogance and weakness that will haunt this nation long after Mr. Bush has left the White House.”

During my college career I was challenged to view, respect, and understand the view of the other side of the aisle by David L. Boren, President of the University of Oklahoma and former US Senator. He challenges his students and colleagues to believe in, understand and work with a bipartisan President. If you have even the slightest interest in politics and the future of America’s place in the world, I encourage you to read his book, A Letter to America; it is incredibly insightful, timely, and thought-provoking.

I believe in America and most certainly believe in the greatness of the American people. Now is the time to come together and I hope that we not only join forces now, but that both sides of the aisle see the importance of bipartisanship in the future.

"We have one country, one Constitution and one future that binds us. And when we come together and work together, there is no limit to the greatness of America."
-President George W. Bush

Thank you President Bush and may God Bless America.

O yea and welcome to the neighborhood President Bush, I can’t wait for you to settle down at home in Dallas!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Idol is back...



American Idol always comes at just the right time, in the middle of winter when all everyone wants to do is kick it indoors where it is warm and when we're starving for new television since most shows have been on hiatus (The Office/30 Rock/Brothers & Sisters) or canceled (Pushing Daisies/Dirty-Sexy-Money), so now its time for fresh television. I actually have never watched a full season of Idol until last year, but I've always watched the last 4 episodes of every season with my favorite performer in mind.

Every year I swear I'll never watch the reality wreck again, but I love it! It is sooooo corny, at times annoying, but sooooo AWESOME! Idol is my guiltiest of my many guilty pleasures and at this point in the game I'm addicted, o yea it hasn't even started yet.

Why am I addicted you ask? Let me count the ways:

1) I love water cooler talk about last night's epsiode between performance and elimination night

2) I love the inevitable conversation that will take place after elimination night

3) I love logging onto Itunes and downloading my favorite performances

4) I love the over-choreographed and under practiced group performance usually at the beginning and end of every show, you never know what might happen, just one step too close and Jason Castro's weave will go up in flames during Rihanna's Please Don't Stop the Music and it doesn't get much better than that

5) Of course the inevitable arena tour that will commence following the season finale this summer. (note: This past summer while "working" in NYC, Kristen and I schlepped it out to the concert in Jersey (sigh) and it was everything that I hoped it would be and more. Kristen is the best friend ever for actually making this hike with me, she'll try to act like she didn't love it but what is there not to love about an amateur performance of I'm Proud to be an American in front of a neon flag, whispering sweet nothings to Carly Smittson in the meet n greet line, and whooping at Jason Castro, not too many things. If you've never been, you should find your closest related 12 year cousin/niece/brother or any tween that you can find and take them because then you will at least have an excuse for being at and then enjoying the high school-esque talent show that is the Pop Tarts American Idol Tour)

6) Oh, and I want to be Ryan Seacrest (as mentioned earlier this week), have the business mind of Simon Cowell, and strive to have coffee or a vodka tonic with Paula Abdul, and now this new chick, who is the new chick you might be asking yourself? I did the same and have a found a few vague details about her from the world of wikipedia.



Kara Elizabeth DioGuardi (born December 9, 1970) is an American songwriter, record producer, and singer who has contributed to a long list of internationally successful popular songs. She writes music in the light pop-rock genre. She will be a new Judge on the eighth season of American Idol. DioGuardi has worked with Celine Dion, David Archuleta, Kelly Clarkson, Carrie Underwood, and Paula Abdul, American Idol's other female judge.

SHE SOUNDS AWESOME TO ME!!!! I can't wait to meet her tonight at 7pm central time on FOX!!!!

UPDATE: WELCOME BACK BRADFORD!!!!! I am so glad that Sam Bradford and teammates are bypassing the NFL Draft and returning for another year of Sooner football, BOOMER SOONER!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Awards Season...



Well, Miami was a bust in sooooo many ways, but it was a great escape from reality, I guess. I’m pretty sure that my friends were cursed from the start. We endured many setbacks from rental car issues, canceled flights (riddle me this airlines? why are flights canceled for in-climate weather when traveling from 70 and clear skies in Dallas to 85 and beautiful Miami?) lost luggage, missing cameras, banking problems, ticket ordeals, anyways, if it could go wrong it more than likely did for somebody in my travel group, but what are ya going to do. Boomer Sooner…keep your heads high Sooner nation and be proud of another great season of accomplishments.

On to Awards Season, there are very few things that I love more than a great awards show. I love them all, from the Oscars right down to the VMAs, the Espys and everything in between. Forget receiving an award or being nominated for one, it would be my dream to host the red carpet pre-show. I want to be Ryan Seacrest. In my eyes, he is the hardest working person in Hollywood. Everyday this man hosts multiple radio shows, co-hosts E! News, produces multiple reality shows, hosts American Idol, does every red carpet show imaginable, and has become Dick Clark’s protégé on New Years Rockin’ Eve. He is so good at his job, but I think that one day I could fill his shoes. So here is to being discovered.

I’ve been watching the Golden Globes this evening which for me is the official start of Awards season and they’ve been so random, I’m a little disappointed and hoping that things will soon pick up for awards season, because even me, one of their biggest fans was disappointed tonight and by the last few awards shows that I’ve seen.

But congrats to my favorite winners of the night:
- Slumdog Millionaire
- 30 Rock - Tina Fey, Alec Baldwin (This is my favorite show on television, everybody should be watching.)

“To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.”
- Anatole France

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Miami...

I'm boarding a plane in a few hours bound for Miami…most people would be jumping up and down and exuding giddiness about the chance to attend a BCS National Championship, but not this guy, this is strictly a business trip for me and my beloved Sooners. I'm over the hype, the glam, the Bradford/Tebow film montages, and am ready to play. I'm that guy who has spent who knows how much money and energy following OU around the country in the hopes of being part of history and all 4 times I've left with my ego shot, a holiday hang-over, and trying to be an optimist about basketball season.
This year is different, I'm not getting my hopes up, I'm going into the stadium as if it is a big conference room and we're making a presentation, we have everything we need and now its time secure the deal, if we don't, then at least the team scored me 3 days off work and a mini vacation. I'm proud of the Sooners and their accomplishments and am excited to be able to travel with them and support them.
So tonight its South Beach or bust…

"Its not whether you get knocked down, its about if you get back up..."
-Vince Lombardi

Saturday, January 3, 2009

My thoughts...

“We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives... not looking for flaws, but for potential.”
-Ellen Goodman

I’ve been inspired for a long time to start a blog and I’m finally doing it, in true New Year’s style, I’m making a resolution to start a blog and keep up with it this year, hence my blog is aptly titled “This is the year…” There are so many great blogs out there and at times my life is for sure not always the most interesting but I like to give my opinion and I love learning about the opinions of others, so if nothing else I hope to spark healthy discussion. Sometimes I will talk about my life, things that inspire me, new cds that I enjoy, books I’m currently reading and other times I hope to discuss my views of the world, maybe even a little college football.

Over the past few weeks I’ve been trying to figure out what my goals for the New Year are going to be and what I want to accomplish, let’s not kid ourselves, I try to predict the future everyday of my life, some would say that I’m a control freak, I like to call it being organized. At times in the past it could be easy to assume or predict what would happen in my life tomorrow and the week after, but as I close my first full year in the “real world” it’s getting harder and harder. Who would’ve thought that last year I would move to New York City and then back to Dallas, live with a surfer from Rhode Island, buy a new car, or become infatuated with an Alaskan Governor?

Below is a list of my favorite things from 2008: (in no particular order)

Movies –
Role Models
American Teen
Doubt
Baby Mama
Frost/Nixon
The Dark Knight
Slumdog Millionaire
HSM 3

Books –
Same Kind of Different as Me
Twilight
The World is Flat
Marley & Me
The Reagan Diaries
A Letter to America

Music –
Vampire Weekend by Vampire Weekend
Viva la Vida by Coldplay
We Sing We Dance We Steal Things by Jason Mraz
Narrow Stairs by Death Cab for Cutie
Good Girl Gone Bad by Rihanna
Paper Trail by TI
Where the World Comes Down by All American Rejects
Sleep Through the Static by Jack Johnson

As selfish as it sounds, 2008 was all about me, I started making decisions that were good for me, my well being and my happiness. I may have just labeled myself as a selfish prick, but that’s so far from reality, hear me out. Many of my choices revolved around taking personal and professional risks, reigniting my relationship with Christ, becoming more healthy and working out more often, all of which I feel attribute in some way to being a better son, brother, friend, colleague, and neighbor.

What this year taught me was expect the unexpected. No longer can the world accuse my generation of being naïve to world issues of war and recession, we have endured both. Nothing about 2009 is easy to predict, maybe it will bring a new love, a hobby, or even tragedy, but one thing is for certain, I’ve learned to be proud of the individual that I am, the things that I’ve accomplished, and the decisions that I’ve made. As so many people look to forget 2008, I feel so blessed to close the year with the fondest of memories, experiences, and the most amazing friends in the world. 2008 was all about learning about me and I want 2009 to be the year that I take these lessons and apply them in a way to help others.

“Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.”
-Benjamin Franklin

Below are a few of my favorite pictures from 2008


New Years Day 2008


My 23rd Birthday and Remodeling NYC Style


Jimmy Buffet and Concert Season 2008


The Today Show


NYC


Old Roots, New Friends


Red Carpets!


Great Friends, Great Pizza


Las Vegas Family Vacation, Part Deux


Best wishes to all in the new year, may 2009 bring health and happiness to everyone.